Hi Everyone,

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Be Well,

Love,

Sheri

Hi Everyone,

    I hope everyone is well and in good spirits.  Speaking of spirits, we had one hell of an evening on July 17th with the Reverend Ron Fredrics who performs something called "Blindfold Billet Readings".  Up until May of this year, I had never heard of billet readings.  I don't believe that there are many mediums who do this.  I googled billet readers and only found one other person listed as a blindfold billet reader.  He, like Ron, lives in Florida.  However, my friend Joyce had seen Ron's work and after Danny passed she made of point of telling me that the next time Ron was in NYC, I simply had to see him.  This came about May 15, 2009 in a church in Greenwich Village where nearly 100 people gathered to watch a demonstration of life after death the likes of which I had never seen!  Ron's ear to the other side is so open, that the communications that come through are clear, correct and evidential.  It is much more like a direct line than a process of interpretation.  It's wild.  I recommend it for anyone who is mourning or in fear of death.

    On July 17, 2009 we, (Jerry Aaron Jess and I) hosted Ron in an evening of billets in a room we are able to rent in the sister building to the one we live in.  It was a joyous night as many were able to feel the love and connection between them and those on the other side who they miss.  I will describe exactly how billet readings work in the blog soon.  I have just gotten my web site up, sheriperl.com and I am ready to shut down for the night.  But I want to spread the word that Ron will be returning to NYC in the end of September and will be doing another billet reading for us in the Ariel East.  I hope many of you will be there!  More to come from me about this.  Be well!

Love,

Sheri

Hi Everyone,
Just a quick note to say hi and thank all of you for sending prayers and thoughts of love out to Danny on July 1. As some of you know, I am putting together my own web site where you will be able to register your child for a prayer/pool made up of other parents and caring souls who will take a moment to say a prayer for your child on the anniversary of their passing. This will be called The Prayer/Pool Registry or PPR. From what Dan has confirmed through numerous sessions with mediums, the prayers are very beneficial to them. Therefore I look forward to registering all of your children as soon as the site is up and running. Of course I will keep you posted through the blog. Please say hi and share your feelings about the PPR!

Love to all,
Sheri

Hi Everyone,

It's been a while and I am hoping that you are all well and in good spirits! I wanted to talk about death anniversaries and what we are doing to help us get through Dan's. As you may know, we are coming close to our one year mark. As the weather has warmed up, I am filled with memories of those last days with Dan, a year ago last June. We were relocating to the city, saying goodbye to our beautiful Ardsley home, which was both bittersweet and exciting at the same time. Jessica was going to be finishing high school in Manhattan and so it was definitely the time to move back. Still, it is hard to say goodbye to something as beautiful as the Ardsley home which we had built with love and shared as a family.

When Dan got into his own apartment for the first time, he seemed excited with the prospects of having his own place, while still working with his father and brother. Although Dan had always been a loose cannon, we were not prepared to find him dead in his bed on that day of July 1, 2008. He had been so happy that last day of his life, moving furniture into his new place and setting himself up. But, then you never know.

Now that we are approaching the anniversary of that dreaded day, we gave some thought about what to do and then Jerry came up with this idea which I feel is the best thing that we can do, or that any of you can do, when those times come. We are asking everyone to please observe a minute of silence on July 1, 2009 if possible at 3PM, and during that time to send Dan thoughts of love!

I believe that this is the best thing we can do because I have reason to believe that this helps them very much on that side! Everyday from the day Dan passed I sent out mass emails to everyone in my address book, letting people know that Dan had died and asking them to please send him thoughts of love. Exactly one week after Dan passed, in a session with Glenn Dove, Dan spoke of the "prayer list" that had been activated and how much it helped to lift and support him. He described it as waves of energy that he could feel.

What I love about this is that we can all do this for our kids all the time. Especially on those heavy days that weigh us down so terribly, it is wonderful to be able to do something positive. And as parents, to know that we are doing something that helps our child, HELPS US IMMEASURABLY!

It is occurring to me right now that we ought to all post our kids names and the dates of their births and their passing. This way we can set up calendars for our group. Actually there is a lot we can do to help our kids and each other. I suggest that each of you post both the birth and passing dates of your children. Anyone who will, purchase a small calendar to start filling in these names and dates. I'm getting the thumbs up feeling from Danny that this is a good thing for all of us on both sides.

Let me hear from you. I always say that we are stronger together.

With love and blessings,
Sheri

Hi Everyone!

I hope that all of you are well. I wanted to share a story about one of our own blog members. For the sake of privacy, I will call her Renee.

Renee lost her son Allen approximately 2 years ago. He was another younger crossing, in his early 20's I believe. Renee was feeling the desire to try to connect up with Allen and so a couple of months ago she had a session with a woman in upstate N.Y., not far from where she lives.

The medium did not pick up on anything revelant to Renee who eventually told the woman that she had lost her son Allen and that she was hoping to connect up with him. Then the woman gave her the name Henry, which also meant nothing to Renee. The medium then told her that Henry was the spirit guide for Allen and that Allen did not want to talk to her and that he wants her to concentrate on her own life and to let him be! Can you imagine how Renee must have felt?

Renee then sent me an email to inquire if I had ever heard of anything happening like this before and of course, in all my years of study and exploration, I have never ever heard such a statement made! I was appaulled. My only way to explain it was that it was the medium's way of covering up her own inadequacies. I tried to impress that on Renee and encouraged her to set up a session with Glenn Dove, who I know to be a true, sincere, integral and gifted medium.

Just a few days ago, on the 28th of May, Renee and her husband drove out to Baldwin so that Renee could have an in-person session with Glenn Dove. Lo and behold, Allen and many other relatives came forward to speak to Renee and of course, as we would suspect, Allen was there loving his mother just as much as she was loving him. He was able to indentify himself to her by mentioning things in ways that only she would understand the significance of. I know the session has lifted her and eased her mind in so many ways.

A medium can have an off day. However, a true medium will not need you to tell them why you are there, will not come up with endless names and images that ring no bells, and will not deliver you a harmful message as a way to cover her ass! When loved ones are brought together love is present. It is a blessing that helps the beings on both sides of the veil and even in disagreements, understanding and acceptance prevail. Don't be afraid of this kind of communication with the other side. Those who loved you once, love you now and only desire to help and comfort you.

So, I encourage all of you to seek this kind of communication but to be cautious of who you go to. And if you do find yourself in a session that just doesn't feel right, somehow doesn't ring true, pick up your bags and exit the door. You always have the choice to walk out and not listen. Trust yourself in this regard and be self protective and you will be okay!

I am asking again for all of you to post your comments and share a piece of your lives with me and the others. I keep wishing to hear from more of you. Hopefully soon you will all begin to contribute!

Love to you all,
Sheri

Hi Everyone,
Boy did I have a night last night! I went to a large group session, (approximately 120 people) with medium Reverend Ron Fredrecks, who is a medium extraordinaire! Let me tell you how this went.
I was there with Jessica and Aaron. As the room filled up as Reverend Ron spoke of his work, and asked people to turn off their cell phones, stressing that a cell phone ringing could break his trance. Then we were all given a small piece of paper that was folded in half. It was called a billet. We were instructed to fill them out the billets in a specific way. You could write down as many a 3 names of people you would like to connect up with, the relationship that they had to you, ask one question and print and sign your name. This is what mine looked like.

Daniel Migdol Son
Herman Perl father
Harry Edwards mentor

I am assisted by you in my healing work

Sheri Perl Migdol

The billets were collected in a little basket. All I could figure was that he was going to read these billets and see what he picked up. Wrong again! At his request the group sand "Cumbaya" and while we were doing this he taped his eyes shut and put a big blindfold over them. There is no way this man was going to read those billets with his eyes!

In an instant he reached his hand into the basket, took out a billet, rubbed it between his fingers and then held it up against his forehead. Then he would say something like this, "I have a beautiful woman here by the name of Elisa Mendola" and each time someone would say, that is my mother or my father or my brother. Never once did he bring up a name that no one related to. He got first and LAST names, totally correctly and some of these names were long and complicated.

About a third of the way into this Ron asked who Aaron was. Aaron acknowledged. On his billet he had put Daniel Migdol---brother Herman Perl---Grandfather and his question had to do with the mysterious way lights go on and off around him. He asked Dan if he was responsible for this. Reverend Ron just came out and said that Daniel and Herman were there and that they were saying that they both are responsible for the light show. Then Ron said that John was there, (my grandfather) and that he said he has nothing to do with the lights!

Then Ron inquired as to whether there was a sister and then he said he was getting the name Jessica. Jess acknowleged, quietly. In response to her question to Dan which was "Can you hear me", he said that he can hear her, even when she talks very quietly but that she could talk louder in this bog group. He went on to say that if she would take the time to sit back and take in a deep breath, that she would hear his answer.

Then Ron asked who was Perl and wasn't that my maiden name? I said it was. He then said to me, "He was your son". Yes, indeed he was and is! In response to my question I was told that spirit is with me all the time helping me and my children.

It is hard to recall exact words but that was the gist of it. I hope my recording came out which I will check shortly. I simply had to write this blog first thing because I am so excited about it. I have never seen a medium take on an entire room of people and give each and every one of them a pertinent, evidential message from one or more of their loved ones on the other side. It was truely uplifting to see that everyone has someone that still watches and cares deeply for them and that our loved ones are indeed themselves.

I hope you are all well and to hear from you when time allows!

Love and blessings,
Sheri

Hi Everyone,

The topic for today is: What's Our Defense Against Death?

I would always say to my kids that no matter how bad something was or seemed to be, that the only thing that mattered was to "take the teaching". I'd say, if you really screw up, but learn from it, then it hasn't been a total waste. If you don't learn from it, then it is a waste and you are bound to make the same mistake again...but if you take the teaching and learn something from it, it can improve your life.

And so I say, "What do we learn from the death of our child? What can we possibly learn? Even if you hear about the reasons for the death from a reliable medium, you still have to take that on faith. But, what do we really know? I'll tell you. What we know, beyond any shadow of a doubt, is that physical life is impermanent! What we know is that everyone we love and cherish will, at one time or another, die and there is nothing we can do to stop that. We can try to resist, but that is more or less like holding onto a rope that is moving through our hands and trying with all our might to stop the movement. Inevitably, the harder you hold onto the rope, the fiercer the rope burns!

So, what can we do? Well, we try to hold the rope more lightly and surrender to the terms of our existence. But, I believe that there is one thing we can do and it is this: Love everybody even harder! When I am down, feeling Danny's loss acutely, I hear him wisper in my ear, "Love Jess more. Have more patience for her. Put more of your love into everything. Take the teaching and realize that everyone and everything that matters to you, even that little dog Steven sleeping next to you on the bed, is impermanent---so appreciate them and love them double! And love me double too. The funny thing is, you already do. It's a great deal for me, because since I am on this side, it seems I can do no wrong! 'Danny did this, Danny said that', it's like I've become a living God, a walking legend...So then, REALLY take the teaching and love everyone that matters to you as uncondtionally as you love me now and you will show yourself, as well as death, that it can disintegrate the body but it won't ever disintegrate love....if anything, from my perspective, death intensifies love." And so that's my defense to death. I say, death be not proud, you can move the pieces around the board, but that's as far as the separation goes. Love spans the grave and outlasts bodies and outlasts lifetimes and outlasts you!

And so, remember to send your child all your love at least once a day. Dan confirms that they do feel it and are healed by it. This is something that you all can do and I find that it heals me too. I refer you to "The Love Infusion"...an exercise I layed out for you in a former blog.

Please keep in touch, let others know about our blog, and share how you are doing and what you doing and what helps you. What helps you can help the rest of us.

With Love,
Sheri